Other consultants getting the gigs you want aren't "better at marketing" than you.
But they might be better at the habits that create consistency.
When you honour your goals by doing the work (even when things aren't perfect, or you're tempted to put it off, or the negative self-talk kicks up), you increase your odds:
- Of being recalled/remembered.
- Of being in the right place at the right time.
- Of getting feedback that informs what you will/won't do next time.
None of which can happen if you give up too soon!
So practice some self-compassion, apply a self-soothing technique that helps you regulate, and use habits that increase consistency.
Here’s what’s worked for my clients who are just as busy running a business as you are, and still manage to get that newsletter, blog post, LinkedIn article, or video out on time... consistently:
- Adjust your schedule (and honour it): you’d be quick to put a client project or prospect meeting in your calendar. But often, marketing stuff just "happens when I get to it." Not anymore. Honour your work by scheduling it like you would activites that earn money now (because this work will earn you money later).
- Pause 1 activity that is taking up your time with low return: that networking event you go to every month because it’s easy; posting content to a secondary social media channel you’re not actually active on; writing blog posts for a site with very low traffic. You can always return to these activities later, but you’d be surprised how little you’ll miss them two weeks in.
- Get an accountability partner: your friends and family are supportive, but they’re not going to hold you accountable for showing up consistently. You don’t have a co-founder to shoulder the burden. So no one checks in that you did the thing you said you would do. An accountability partner who understands the realities of running a business (and can also provide feedback on what you want to put out into the world) can be very powerful. Like, 95% chance of reaching your goal powerful.
Consistence with marketing is freely yours to tap into, Darlin'... as long as you're willing to try a different habit to access it.
Because you can't land new business with old habits!