It's the end of February and already my 2026 goals are being tested 😬
I started my strategic planning in October of last year. I go all in for like, 3 months with reflections, ways I’ll track things, and creating my dashboards on Miro.
But lately, little things here and there want to nibble at my business strategy.
- New programs by my fav creators.
- New networking events in cool places.
- New tools to save me time/money.
Wouldn't hurt if I just added them to my list of things to do/learn/try... right?
Alison stawp! Hold on! Let’s check in: his isn't me being open to opportunity.
This is me self-sabotaging.
Preying upon my own need for hits of dopamine and sense of accomplishment. Because I'm in the not-exciting-at-all middle part: The part between the excitement of planting seeds, and the satisfaction of harvesting the fruit.
I don't wanna water or till soil anymore. I want the fruit now, dammit! So what to do? Well, here's what I find helpful.
- Look at my past years reflections. I'll see all the times I felt this way before (because it's normal) AND what I did about it. It gives me strength.
- Look at the timelines I set for my goals. I'll see I'm right where I'm supposed to be, and that the urge to speed things up is silly. It gives me space.
- Realize I'm focused on the negative. There's a correlation to me wanting distractions after consuming content that makes me feel inferior, when I lose a deal, or something didn't go my way. It gives me perspective.
Now self-sabotage shrinks and slinks away because I've strength, space, and perspective by my side. Because I'm growing actual juicy fruit over here... and those distractions are just gummy candy shaped like fruit.
And I'm not interested in that sugar crash. What about you, Darlin'?